Self-authoring (autobiographical) section

“Decades of empirical research has supported the proposition that setting goals and pursuing them can lead to significant improvements in task performance. Goals that are specific lead to better performance than vague exhortations “to do your best”. The relationship between goal difficulty and performance is linear and positive. Other factors such as competition, provision of feedback, and participation in decision-making do not affect performance beyond their function in establishing and adjusting the commitment to specific and difficult goals”.

Source: The following extracts are from an article called “Benefits of Writing” by Jordan Peterson and Raymond Mar.

Life Impact Coaching

We count it a great privilege to come along side your organisation, trend-setters in your respective fields of kingdom endeavour. Grateful for being included in your overarching vision to experience vibrancy and energy of the team in sobriety , dignity and efficiency.

It is always a great joy for us to be a witness of the story God is telling through your members. We count it a sacred privilege to serve ministry pilots who are listening to the speakings of the Spirit, displaying the Son in order to reveal more of the Father.

Complete the 3 MODS assignments

1) Autobiography – the “early you” from birth up to your conversion experience, including short stories of your growing up years including childhood trauma.

(2) Biography – some 15 – 30 feedbacks from friends/relatives in answer to the question: “How have I impacted your life?”

(3) Life Impact Statement : self-authoring your future based on the data provided in your auto-biography, the 360 sms feedback.

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[Use this suggested format to help in connecting the dots regards your elemental personhood where you find life and ministry resonance. Every soul then, is ordained for greatness and every community will bless God and flourish.]

EARLY CHILDHOOD

(1.) Describe the place where you grew up, fondest memories and favourite activities.

(2.) What are your parents like? Mother and father’s physical description. What do they do for a living? What do you like most about them? How did they discipline and rear you? Memorable time spent with them? Values you grew up with?

(3.) Describe your siblings.

(4.) Were you close to your brothers and sisters when you were young? Unforgettable times spent with them or your usual kind of day when you were younger? Your present relationship with them?

(5.) What is your family lifestyle, tradition, rules and guidelines? What about your hobbies, like and dislikes (person, things, activities)?

(6.) Describe yourself when you were younger. Person who influenced you when you were young, person who influenced you the most, lessons learned?

(7.) Did your parents educate you with sexuality and sex?

ADOLESCENT

(8.) Describe yourself during this period, your attitude, motivation, hobbies likes and dislikes? What were your priorities? Person who influenced you the most? Turning point of your life?

(9.) School(s) you went to. Activities joined, kind of friends you have, your social relationships? How did you deal with identity crisis, frustrations, triumphs?

ADULTHOOD

(10.) Describe yourself as you are now, your beliefs, attitude, value you uphold, hobbies likes and dislikes (persons, activities and things)?

(11.) What challenges you the most? What makes you angry, sad or frustrates you? how do you deal with your problems and frustrations in life?

(12.) What makes you happy? Can you say that you are connected, fulfilled? If not, what will it take to make you feel contented and satisfied?

(13.) What would you like and would not like to change about yourself? Why?

(14.) What are the turning (flash or freeze) points in your life?

(15.) Your present employment, how do you deal with people at your workplace, challenges, problems faced and how do you deal with it?

(16.) When and how did you meet your spouse? Your first impression with him or her? What attracted you most? What made you sure that she/he is the one for you? How was the proposal made? When and where did you get married?

(17.) How Long have you been married? What do you like most about your spouse? How do you show him/her love? What are his/her blind spots you intensely dislike about which you argue? How do you show that you are not pleased and how do you settle things?

(18.) What have you learned from each other? What are the things you like/dislike about your parents and their relationship? How do you apply them in your married life?

(19.) How well do you know your spouse? His/her moods? What pleases him/her and what do you do to please him/her?

(20.) What would you like to change and would you not like to change about each other?

(21.) How do you share responsibilities with each other? Who manages the money?

(22.) How much time do you spend together?

(23.) How much time do you spend away from each other?

SPIRITUAL LIFE

(1.) What are the values you lived up with?

(2.) How do you deal with trials in your life?

(3.) What is your religion? If you are converted, what made you change your religion? How do you practice it?

(4.) What do you do when someone is rude to you?

(5.) How do you see your present and future life?

(6.) What do you consider important? What are your priorities in life?

FINANCIAL

(1.) What are your assets? (eg, income, properties, cash) your liabilities (eg, loans, mortgages, etc?)

(2.) What is your present employment? How much time do you spend working? Work status?

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